Many of us have an idea of where we are going, not written down, but up in our heads. Or I know there have been times in my life where I have also felt aimless. I was still figuring out what I wanted in life, and that is okay as well.
For those of you though who are ready to take that next step, I challenge you to make a Mind Map for your life. Mind Maps, done correctly, can be super powerful stuff. I am talking more than just about the law of attraction. Think about it. If your company did not have fiscal year goals, how would it put together the budget. If you did not have a map or internet access, how would you reach a destination you had never visited? This is the same with life. If you do not have a road map for your life, then you are leaving your destination up to chance. If you are okay with that, no need to read further. However, if you have a dream, if you know what you want in life, then you need a mind map to fast track your progress towards it.
Here are 5 Tips to Create Dynamite Mind Maps:
- Broad Categories - You want this to be a well-rounded road map. So make sure you have goals for all areas of your life. Here are a few suggestions:
- People - Make a short list of the important people in your life. The ones you want to make sure you are regularly connecting with and whom you want to know you appreciate and love. I usually put a heart in the center of my mind maps and make a list of these individuals inside it. Two things to note. Do not forget to put yourself. Too often we focus on everyone else and forget to be kind and take care of ourselves. Secondly, I want this to be a reminder for you, so that when you look at this list, you can ask yourself, "When is the next time I see this person? Do we have a coffee date set up? I need to call her. I need to send him an email." Ideally, like the rest of these categories, this will serve as a prompt for you to take some sort of action.
- Places - Where do you want to go? What places do you want to visit? Where do you want to live? What does your ideal vacation look like? You get the picture. I think this category is self-explanatory.
- Career - What does your ideal job look like? What type of company do you want to work for? What kind of mentor do you have? What job title do you desire? What Boards or Committees or Non-Profits do you want to volunteer your time for?
- Lifestyle - Do you have a regular date night? Quality time with the kids? Regular happy hours with your coworkers? Weekend getaways with your friends? Game nights or BBQs with the neighbors? Think about what your ideal week looks like and how that time is spent. You get the chance to build it. Remember, this is your life. You only get one. You have a choice in how you spend it. Be purposeful about it.
- Personal Development - How are you investing in yourself? Are you growing as a person? What do you want to learn? I heard a study recently that said the most effective way to learn is by completing stretch assignments. So I challenge you to not only take a class or read a book, BUT COMPLETE AN EXERCISE OR ACTIVITY THAT GETS YOU OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE. I promise that will probably be your biggest learning opportunity, so map one out for yourself.
- Health - Do you want to lose 5-10 lbs? Do you want to run a marathon? Do you want to learn more about eating clean? Do you want to lower your blood pressure. When was the last time you got a physical? These are all just questions to think about as you decide your goals. Do not feel like you have to answer each and every one. Hopefully these will just prompt you to think of the one that best fits you and your dream lifestyle.
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